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Aug 3Liked by Abigail Thomas

I love your Chuck stories. Who wouldn’t want a friendship where the catch phrase is “I’ll do anything you say” I like to imagine he is saving you a cozy little spot at the slush pile table of the great beyond. Selfishly though can we keep you and your stories on this side of the veil for as long as possible? I’m sure Chuck won’t mind waiting.

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I'll do my best. So glad you liked it and Chuck, too. Thank you very much. I have a cardinal in my yard these days. A friend told me a cardinal is a visit from the dead. I sit on my porch waiting for it., and stay until it flies off.

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Chuck was a lovely man. I enjoyed seeing him at Bookfest, and was so sad when you lost your best friend. I know you miss him. And, he was EXTREMELY handsome. xoxo

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I just reread What Comes Next and How to Like it for the billionth time. You wrote the hell out of that book, Abby. The connection you 2 had was once in a lifetime I think. I have one of those friendships. We’ve fucked up and fixed it so many times, and I love every fracture of us. I still have him and can’t bear the thought of him not being here— almost as much as I can’t bear the thought of you without Chuck. Sending a bear hug xo

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Thank you, Kate. This means a lot to me.

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Beautiful

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Thank you, Prajna. Thank you.

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You are so very kind, thank you, Kate. I really appreciate your thoughtfulness.

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Aug 3Liked by Abigail Thomas

You made Chuck real to me in your writing. I enjoyed this fleeting glimpse of your friendship before complication set in. Writing is a form of love, I think. I came to love Chuck. I miss him with you.

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I do love that you came to love Chuck, thank you. You couldn't have said anything nicer.

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I loved reading about your friendship with Chuck in your book. I didn't know he has since died. I'm sorry for your loss.

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Thank you. Very niice of you.

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Oh that’s beautiful and touching

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Thank you very much.

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You know why I just paid to follow you ? Chuck and I would have been friends.

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I love that. Thank you.

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Aug 4Liked by Abigail Thomas

Nice! Anyone with a very best friend is very fortunate. Even post passing, never leaves our side.

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true that. Thank you.

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You made me smile.

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Thank you. I love knowing that.

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I love Chuck. What a story you two have had together!Thank you for sharing your extraordinary friendship. I'm so sorry for your loss. Sending love. So much love.

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Thank you very much. It's funny, you made me feel better.

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Such a touching piece. Thank you for sharing this.

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Thank you very much. Thank you for reading it.

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Love stories about Chuck!

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Thank you. There are more, there's a whole book he asked me to write about us.

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What Comes Next, right? I just reread it. ❤️

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Yes, You did? Thank you.

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Thinking of how his name could be short for "Chuckle " as you both made me laugh on this hard day. Thank you for sharing your friend with us - stories help us heal the cracks that miss our loved ones. 💔

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Thank you. The cracks run deep, though, but yes, writing helps a lot.

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Aug 3Liked by Abigail Thomas

I, too, have enjoyed reading about Chuck and it came as a shock to learn that he is gone. I am so sorry. How lovely to think there was someone doing the slush job once. Everyone's dreams got an airing, a consideration.

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Slush was a great job, I loved it. No more, though. If you don't have an agent, or some close connection, it's hard to get read. Stupid, I think. But it's all about money nowadays.

Thank you for your kind words.

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Aug 3Liked by Abigail Thomas

Loved this so much on so many levels. Thanks for sharing your life with us.

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Thank you very much.

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founding

Oh Chuck. You shared so much with him.

I’m glad you have all of these fun memories.

Lovely

🌹🌹🌹

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Me too. Thanks, Prajna.

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So important to kindle these memories, I am also glad you share them, so we can feel Chuck and your special love.

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